Let me tell you about someone I know. I'll call her Jane to protect her identity.
The man in Jane’s life (let's call him Joe) has some definite ideas about how Jane should behave. In fact, one might call him controlling. During the week he forces her into a confined space for many hours of the day. She is not allowed to move much at all (even if her legs are cramping and her back is aching). He keeps her doing menial tasks that have no meaning or significance in her life and allows her out of this confined space for only a few short intervals just to have something to eat and briefly stretch her legs. She has no voice in his world. She has no autonomy. In fact, most of the time she even has to ask his permission to use the bathroom.
The man in Jane’s life (let's call him Joe) has some definite ideas about how Jane should behave. In fact, one might call him controlling. During the week he forces her into a confined space for many hours of the day. She is not allowed to move much at all (even if her legs are cramping and her back is aching). He keeps her doing menial tasks that have no meaning or significance in her life and allows her out of this confined space for only a few short intervals just to have something to eat and briefly stretch her legs. She has no voice in his world. She has no autonomy. In fact, most of the time she even has to ask his permission to use the bathroom.